2017/08/06

DON'T QUIT...

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest if you must, but don't you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a fellow turns about
When he might have won had he stuck it out.
Don't give up though the pace seems slow -
You may succeed with another blow.

Often the goal is nearer than
It seems to a faint and faltering man;
Often the struggler has given up
When he might have captured the victor's cup;
And he learned too late when the night came down,
How close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out -
The silver tint in the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It might be near when it seems afar;
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit -
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.

Edger A. Guest

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things that the world need to learn from Tamil Nadu




















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2017/01/14

WAKE UP PARENTS!

WAKE UP PARENTS

Years back, "poor illiterate parents" produced 


🔹Doctors,
🔹Engineers,
🔹 Scientists,
🔹 Accountants,
🔹 Lawyers,
🔹 Architects,
🔹 Professors...

whom I will refer to as Group 'A'

These Group 'A' Children struggled on their own after Primary 6 or Grade 12, to become notable personalities.

                Most of them 

 👉trekked to school barefooted 

👉 went to farms 

👉fetched water and firewood 

👉cared for domesticated animals 

👉did some work including trading after school to survive.

Now Group 'A' ,who have now become Parents themselves are producing Group 'B' Children.
These 'Group B' children are 
 

🔹pampered   

🔹 helped in their homework or home assignments from nursery school through secondary schools to higher institutions.
 
🔹 chauffeur driven to very expensive schools or are sent abroad to study.
 
🔹 they can watch movies from morning till dawn after school.
 

🔹 they are treated like baby kings and queens.
 
🔹 they don't do any household chores.
 

🔹 Food is put on the table for them,
 

🔹 their plates are removed and washed by parents or house maids.
 

🔹 They are given expensive cars and clothes,
 

🔹 not forgetting big pocket monies to be wasted !!!
 

🔹 Their parents help them in doing their assignments.


🤔 In spite of all these, only few can speak or write correctly. 😏

 
🤔Group 'A' Parents cared for their own parents and children, Group 'B',their Children are still struggling to find their feet at age 30+...
 
🤔They find it difficult to do things on their own because they are used to being helped to think and doing things by Group 'A'. So they can't help themselves, their parents or the society. 

THEY ABANDON THEIR PARENTS IN THEIR BID TO ACQUIRE THE WORLD...


😴 Where do you belong ???

🏮 Reduce the pampering and the unnecessary help you offer your children.
🏮 Let your children *grow in wisdom, intelligence and strength*.
🏮Let them face the truth and the realities of life. Teach them to grow to become
independent adults.

                   Teach them to

👉fear God,
👉respect others and
👉 develop confidence in themselves.



Parents, discipline your children to become disciplined adults,  USEFUL and not USELESS...





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tale of mid 20's...

Tale of mid 20s 😄😄😄

 

You’ve spent so many years looking forward to this phase of your life. And it always looked so cool. So glamorous. So filled with love and laughter. 

Yet here you are. With knowledge that it’s anything but.

It’s messy buns and messier lives.

It’s baggy shirts and overflowing laundry bags.

It’s a lot of work and never enough money.

It’s freedom with responsibilities.

And life is no longer what it seemed.

Different people are doing different things.


Your best friend’s getting married. 

Your old classmate is killing it with success. 

Your ex is happy in love. 

Your old mate is drowning in drugs. 

Different people are doing different things. 

But not you. You’re just existing. You’re getting through everyday a little better than the last. 

But then you have days where you can’t get up at all. 

You spend your Friday evenings holed up in a corner because you’re too responsible to drink your night away.

Too control freakish to lose yourself to someone else’s tunes.

But somehow, this isn’t enough.

This life you’re living doesn’t feel complete. Loneliness wraps around you like a blanket you love and you wonder where you went wrong. Why you became different to everyone else.

 

“Did I do too much too soon? Did I not do enough? Was there a reason why it was never me? Is this going to be the rest of my life? Alone? Unsuccessful? Filled with dreams that never come true?”

And your hands reach out to your phone. One text. One call. To that someone who might make you feel pretty. Who might make you feel important. And your need takes over.

 

The need to feel accepted. To feel appreciated. To feel adored. To feel loved.

 And it is so strong, you forget your sanity for a few minutes of flattery. You lessen your worth for dishonest words. The hurt in your heart, camouflaged. If only for a few seconds.

But it’s never enough. And when you wake up, it’s worse. The hammering of your heart so loud in your ears. A memory of last night frustratingly haunting. Yet another mistake. Yet again.

You scream hateful words to yourself. When will I ever learn? You go over those messages. Those conversations. How you fell right back into a ditch when you knew better. Just for a moment, you wish you weren’t yourself.

And in that moment, read these words:

Breathe. It’s not so bad. You think I don’t understand. But I do. Because I’m there, too. I’ve made that call. I’ve texted that wrong person. I’ve woken up with regrets. I still do. I’ve felt the need to be held. I’ve felt that silent green monster towards a friend in love.
Yes, we all make those mistakes. And we all think nobody else does. But they do.

So please, don’t hate yourself. And don’t stop. Don’t stop loving with all you have. Don’t stop wishing on every shooting star. Don’t stop dreaming of fairytales and being as amazing as Malala Yousafzai. You might not always get there, but don’t stop.

You have so much left to do. You have a world filled with life waiting to happen. You have books to be read. Steps to be taken. Places to see. People to meet. You haven’t lived half your life yet. There’s so much ahead. And in ten years, when you look back, you’ll wish you were here again.

So don’t waste it wallowing in your own sadness. Don’t lose yourself to your self-pity and non-existent boundaries. Use everyday. And I don’t mean spend thousands of dollars and visit the North Pole. I know how you’re struggling to make ends meet.

Do the simple things. Stop procrastinating. Take a walk with nature. Go to the gym. Read your favorite book for the millionth time. Watch a movie. Write your novel. Sketch until you’re better than the best. Eat like you’re dying tomorrow. And most importantly, make mistakes. Your heart will heal. But today will never be back again. Don’t live with “Could-have-been’s.” Take chances.

And ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS remember – It’s okay to be alone. 

There is time to let your life revolve around someone else. But today, let it revolve around you.

Not because you can’t find someone. Not because you can’t be loved.

But because you deserve to wake up with a smile. You deserve to live life. To make memories so wild, you’ll be the coolest grandparent they’ve ever known.

Breathe. It’s only your mid-20’s.

You’re going to be alright.

 




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2017/01/01

Happy New Year...






  

...and as you all can see, the ball has stopped half way to its perch. It's suspended there to remind us before we pop the champagne and celebrate the new year, to stop, and reflect on the year that has gone by, to remember both our triumphs and our missteps, our promises made and broken, the times we opened ourselves up to great adventures... or closed ourselves down for fear of getting hurt, because that's what new year's all about , getting another chance, a chance to forgive. to do better, to do more, to give more, to love more, and to stop worrying about what if... and start embracing what will be. so when that ball drops at midnight, and it will drop, let's remember to be nice to each other, kind to each other, and not just tonight but all year long....

Happy New Year

 

 

 

 

Movie: New Year's Eve

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